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Reflections on the Neighborhood Church

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For most of my life, I’ve been commuting to church. Sometime my family would drive up to 40 miles to worship on Sunday morning. Currently I drive about 15 miles from Minneapolis to the affluent suburb of Maple Grove. It’s amazing how much can change during a 20 minute drive. The stores go from local businesses to massive corporate chains. The homes go from boarded up and foreclosed to multilevel multimillion dollar. The people turn from black, white and asian to… white. The cars on the street begin as late 90’s and older and end up as last year’s biggest gas guzzler. The conversations change from “how am I going to pay my mortgage next month?” to “what am I going to do at the cabin next weekend?”. To say the least, the Sabbath can be a bit of a culture shock for me.

So last Sunday, just for fun, I decided to attend a service in my neighborhood and went to the United Methodist Church (UMC) which is just a few blocks away. To be honest the hymns were cheesy, the program was awful, the sermon was average, and I was the only person between the age of 15 and 35. But there was something incredibly attractive to me about the whole experience. I began to reflect on commuter verses neighborhood churches (“neighborhood church” defined as one that you could literally walk to). Most will agree that at a commuter church (most often mega churches), everyone has the privileged choice to be there (the ability to own a vehicle and afford the fuel expense alone requires privileged resources). In many cases, people consumeristically choose to go to a place where they fit in- the right theology, the right program, the right people. At the UMC, people either go there or they don’t attend at all. 

In my view, attending church with your neighbors provides an essential formational dynamic for the individual as well as the body. People are forced to be in each other’s lives in a much more integrated way. Compartmentalizing work life, home life, and church life is much more difficult. Ignoring the needs of others is arduous (can you imagine hearing about how Jane is going to loose her home on Sunday morning and then actually seeing the eviction noticed posted on her front door?).  

At the UMC service I noticed my neighbor John was attending. John lives at the end of my block and we exchange friendly waves and the annual cordial conversation on National Night Out. But John and I have a problem. He has two giant and very aggressive dogs (of the pit bull variety) patrolling his yard. I am very against the ownership of such animals and consider it to be a violent weapon (we’ve already lost one northside child to a pit bull attack this year). So what would it look like for me to approach John about this issue both as a block member and brother in Christ? What would other church members have to say as we sought to both watch over John’s property and protect our children? How might this change John and me in the process?

Obviously the issue of neighborhood and commuter-mega-churches is complex. I’m not going to stop my church commute any time soon, but I think what is lost in the absence of church neighbors must be acknowledged. Is it possible for the commuter-mega-church to circumvent this problem and experience Christlike character and spiritual formation in a similar manner?


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Agree 100%.
When we lived in suburban Boston, our church (1st Presbyterian) was maybe 3 miles away. You could walk there if necessary (I did a number of times). But we had people commuting from all around the city, 20-40 miles. Now, it was a great church and I couldn’t fault anyone for wanting to come there. But I began to think about the idea of ‘parish’, of involvement in, service and witness to your own community. Key to my understanding was and is, Jesus’ words in 1:8– the idea of beginning in one’s ‘Jerusalem’ and then moving outward as led by the Spirit to ‘Judea, Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” And it seemed to me that the commuters were missing something valuable.
In the early years of our membership there, my wife and I traveled all over New England as Chrisitan musicians. But our involvement at 1st Presby was a foundation and a platform for broader ministry.
Twenty-odd years ago, we moved to NH. There were a number of really good churches in the college community 18 miles away. But we decided to look closer to home. We were members of a tiny, out-of-the way Freewill Baptist church for years. When it came time to leave there (for some very good reasons), we moved to the UMC in the next town — 4 miles away. We’ve been active there for the last 10 years: music and leading worship, youth group, missions. I quickly became a Lay Speaker and this has provided numerous opportunities outside the local church as well.

Comment by Bob Moulton

Those are great thoughts and right on as well. The sad reality is there are so few local community churches. So even when you do walk to your local church it’s often not made up of others who do the same. Though your neighbor is one positive example

Comment by Ariah Fine

great thoughts ben. this is more than etiquette.

Comment by masonmusic

Congratulations on this post! Well articulated. I have a great problem with commuting to church. I believe one has to consider the issue most carefully – and you have done that and highlighted from your own personal experience the basic issues.

I believe there are two basic and over-riding issues: preaching, witnessing, living the gospel in one’s community and building the human community.

Second one first: how does one build community if one is there only to sleep? If we want an inter-active human community with the community spirit we frequently idealise but don’t build, then we have to be there and present to one another. We have to participate in life in the midst of our neighbours.

Now back to the first one, if the focus of our spiritual life is away from our community who preaches, lives and witnesses the gospel where we live?

That little Methodist church is probably imperfect – but it is in there pitching in the local community which is more than can be said for Christian commuters. If this little church got more support from the locals, perhaps a lot of things could change. But I know how difficult it is – particularly the demographic thing. My church has an age skew which has been getting slightly better. I try to tell them about the music. Most of our (older) congregation are content with their old and traditional music – and don’t want to listen to my idea that music in our current times is an important means of communication. I point out that just like one would need to learn Swahili if one was to work among Kenyans so, if we want to communicate with the young, we need to learn their language of music – although there are a variety of dialects. But no one is prepared to step outside their own likes and dislikes to take the gospel to others. The two need not be mutually exclusive – after all how many hours are churches empty. There is time enough and space enough for all.

Two more points. If you continue with the commuter church, can you use public transport? Lastly, have you considered that in an emergency or when you are sick in hospital will your commuter church be of any practical support to you? A solid community based church would probably be the better source of support.

I thought of one more thing. You mentioned that the mega/commuter church was in a middle-class church and the Methodist church was poorer. Mmmm….the good news, according to Jesus, is for the poor. Not the middle-class. Those who are well, he said, had no need of a physician. So when you go to where you approve of the sermon, approve of the music, approve of the sermon delivery, approve of the theology what might that say?

Blessings and bliss

Comment by Miss Eagle

I loved your question: “how does one build community if one is there only to sleep?”

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and posing some challenging questions.

As for emergency situations, my church actually provides excellent pastoral care and I’m confident that I would be well cared for.

As for the rich and poor- while my church is located in the affluent suburbs, we still have some economic diversity (rich and poor), whereas the local UMC congregation is probably mostly on the under resourced side of things.

As for approving of theology, music, sermon delivery, etc- that was a meant to express a generalization of how many Evangelicals choose a church home and is not the core of my reason for attending my church.

Thanks for your comments!

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